Vayechi - Genesis 50:15-26 - So... Now Do You Hate Us?

15. Now Joseph's brothers saw that their father had died, and they said, "Perhaps Joseph will hate us and return to us all the evil that we did to him."		טו. וַיִּרְאוּ אֲחֵי יוֹסֵף כִּי מֵת אֲבִיהֶם וַיֹּאמְרוּ לוּ יִשְׂטְמֵנוּ יוֹסֵף וְהָשֵׁב יָשִׁיב לָנוּ אֵת כָּל הָרָעָה אֲשֶׁר גָּמַלְנוּ אֹתוֹ:
16. So they commanded [messengers to go] to Joseph, to say, "Your father commanded [us] before his death, saying,		טז. וַיְצַוּוּ אֶל יוֹסֵף לֵאמֹר אָבִיךָ צִוָּה לִפְנֵי מוֹתוֹ לֵאמֹר:
17. 'So shall you say to Joseph, "Please, forgive now your brothers' transgression and their sin, for they did evil to you. Now please forgive the transgression of the servants of the God of your father." ' " Joseph wept when they spoke to him.		יז. כֹּה תֹאמְרוּ לְיוֹסֵף אָנָּא שָׂא נָא פֶּשַׁע אַחֶיךָ וְחַטָּאתָם כִּי רָעָה גְמָלוּךָ וְעַתָּה שָׂא נָא לְפֶשַׁע עַבְדֵי אֱלֹהֵי אָבִיךָ וַיֵּבְךְּ יוֹסֵף בְּדַבְּרָם אֵלָיו:
18. His brothers also went and fell before him, and they said, "Look here, we are your slaves."		יח. וַיֵּלְכוּ גַּם אֶחָיו וַיִּפְּלוּ לְפָנָיו וַיֹּאמְרוּ הִנֶּנּוּ לְךָ לַעֲבָדִים:
19. But Joseph said to them, "Don't be afraid, for am I in the place of God?		יט. וַיֹּאמֶר אֲלֵהֶם יוֹסֵף אַל תִּירָאוּ כִּי הֲתַחַת אֱלֹהִים אָנִי:
20. Indeed, you meant evil against me, [but] God designed it for good, in order to bring about what is at present to keep a great many people alive.		כ. וְאַתֶּם חֲשַׁבְתֶּם עָלַי רָעָה אֱלֹהִים חֲשָׁבָהּ לְטֹבָה לְמַעַן עֲשׂה כַּיּוֹם הַזֶּה לְהַחֲיֹת עַם רָב:
21. So now do not fear. I will sustain you and your small children." And he comforted them and spoke to their hearts.		כא. וְעַתָּה אַל תִּירָאוּ אָנֹכִי אֲכַלְכֵּל אֶתְכֶם וְאֶת טַפְּכֶם וַיְנַחֵם אוֹתָם וַיְדַבֵּר עַל לִבָּם:
22. So Joseph dwelt in Egypt, he and his father's household, and Joseph lived a hundred and ten years.		כב. וַיֵּשֶׁב יוֹסֵף בְּמִצְרַיִם הוּא וּבֵית אָבִיו וַיְחִי יוֹסֵף מֵאָה וָעֶשֶׂר שָׁנִים:
23. Joseph saw children of a third generation [born] to Ephraim; also the sons of Machir the son of Manasseh were born on Joseph's knees.		כג. וַיַּרְא יוֹסֵף לְאֶפְרַיִם בְּנֵי שִׁלֵּשִׁים גַּם בְּנֵי מָכִיר בֶּן מְנַשֶּׁה יֻלְּדוּ עַל בִּרְכֵּי יוֹסֵף:
24. Joseph said to his brothers, "I am going to die; God will surely remember you and take you up out of this land to the land that God swore to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob."		כד. וַיֹּאמֶר יוֹסֵף אֶל אֶחָיו אָנֹכִי מֵת וֵאלֹהִים פָּקֹד יִפְקֹד אֶתְכֶם וְהֶעֱלָה אֶתְכֶם מִן הָאָרֶץ הַזֹּאת אֶל הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר נִשְׁבַּע לְאַבְרָהָם לְיִצְחָק וּלְיַעֲקֹב:
25. And Joseph promised the children of Israel, saying, "God will surely remember you, and you shall take up my bones out of here."		כה. וַיַּשְׁבַּע יוֹסֵף אֶת בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל לֵאמֹר פָּקֹד יִפְקֹד אֱלֹהִים אֶתְכֶם וְהַעֲלִתֶם אֶת עַצְמֹתַי מִזֶּה:
26. Joseph died at the age of one hundred ten years, and they embalmed him and he was placed into the coffin in Egypt.		כו. וַיָּמָת יוֹסֵף בֶּן מֵאָה וָעֶשֶׂר שָׁנִים וַיַּחַנְטוּ אֹתוֹ וַיִּישֶׂם בָּאָרוֹן בְּמִצְרָיִם:

Guiding Questions:
1. According to Rashi on verse 15, what did Joseph's brothers "see" that made them worried that Joseph was only waiting for their father to die before he took his revenge on them?

2. In The Midrash Says  (vol. 1, p. 474), what did Joseph do on his way back from their father's funeral that got his brothers worried? Why do you think Joseph did this?

3. According to Rashi on verse 16, did their father really command Joseph to forgive them? Why would they lie?

4. In the Stone Chumash (p. 288), what does Joseph mean when he says "Am I in the place of God?" Compare both Rashi's and Sforno's explanations. Which do you prefer?

5. In The Midrash Says (vol. 1, p. 476), how is Joseph different from Cain, Esau, and Ishmael? Do you think this was easy for Joseph? What can we learn from him?

6. What is the Hebrew word for Joseph's coffin? How else is this word used? According to Plaut's Modern Commentary (p. 318), what is the meaning of "the Coffin and the Ark"?

7. According to Etz Hayim (p. 310), how do the last words of Genesis foreshadow the beginning of the book of Exodus? What are the last words of all the books of the Torah, and how might they connect with each other?

8. According to Rebbe Nachman's Torah on 50:21 (p. 343), what does Joseph do that shows he is a tzaddik, a righteous person? Can you think of modern examples of people who are/were able to do the same?

9. According to the Women's Torah Commentary (p. 296), what is the meaning of the word יִפְקֹד? When else is it used? What questions or thoughts do you have about an idea of God who does this?

Vayigash - Genesis 45:1-10 - I Am My Brother's Keeper

1. Now Joseph could not take all those standing around him, and he called out, "Everyone get away from me!" So no one stood with him when Joseph made himself known to his brothers.		א. וְלֹא יָכֹל יוֹסֵף לְהִתְאַפֵּק לְכֹל הַנִּצָּבִים עָלָיו וַיִּקְרָא הוֹצִיאוּ כָל אִישׁ מֵעָלָי וְלֹא עָמַד אִישׁ אִתּוֹ בְּהִתְוַדַּע יוֹסֵף אֶל אֶחָיו:
2. And he wept out loud, so the Egyptians heard, and the house of Pharaoh heard.		ב. וַיִּתֵּן אֶת קֹלוֹ בִּבְכִי וַיִּשְׁמְעוּ מִצְרַיִם וַיִּשְׁמַע בֵּית פַּרְעֹה:
3. Joseph said to his brothers, "I am Joseph. Is my father still alive?" but his brothers could not answer him because they were stunned by his face.		ג. וַיֹּאמֶר יוֹסֵף אֶל אֶחָיו אֲנִי יוֹסֵף הַעוֹד אָבִי חָי וְלֹא יָכְלוּ אֶחָיו לַעֲנוֹת אֹתוֹ כִּי נִבְהֲלוּ מִפָּנָיו:
4. Then Joseph said to his brothers, "Please come closer to me," and they drew closer. And he said, "I am your brother Joseph, whom you sold into Egypt.		ד. וַיֹּאמֶר יוֹסֵף אֶל אֶחָיו גְּשׁוּ נָא אֵלַי וַיִּגָּשׁוּ וַיֹּאמֶר אֲנִי יוֹסֵף אֲחִיכֶם אֲשֶׁר מְכַרְתֶּם אֹתִי מִצְרָיְמָה:
5. But now do not be sad, and let it not trouble you that you sold me here, for it was to preserve life that God sent me before you.		ה. וְעַתָּה | אַל תֵּעָצְבוּ וְאַל יִחַר בְּעֵינֵיכֶם כִּי מְכַרְתֶּם אֹתִי הֵנָּה כִּי לְמִחְיָה שְׁלָחַנִי אֱלֹהִים לִפְנֵיכֶם:
6. For already two years of famine [have passed] in the midst of the land, and [for] another five years, there will be neither plowing nor harvest.		ו. כִּי זֶה שְׁנָתַיִם הָרָעָב בְּקֶרֶב הָאָרֶץ וְעוֹד חָמֵשׁ שָׁנִים אֲשֶׁר אֵין חָרִישׁ וְקָצִיר:
7. God sent me before you to make for you a portion in the land, and to keep [it] for you for a great deliverance.		ז. וַיִּשְׁלָחֵנִי אֱלֹהִים לִפְנֵיכֶם לָשׂוּם לָכֶם שְׁאֵרִית בָּאָרֶץ וּלְהַחֲיוֹת לָכֶם לִפְלֵיטָה גְּדֹלָה:
8. And now, you did not send me here, but God, who made me a father to Pharaoh, a lord over all his household, and a ruler over the entire land of Egypt.		ח. וְעַתָּה לֹא אַתֶּם שְׁלַחְתֶּם אֹתִי הֵנָּה כִּי הָאֱלֹהִים וַיְשִׂימֵנִי לְאָב לְפַרְעֹה וּלְאָדוֹן לְכָל בֵּיתוֹ וּמשֵׁל בְּכָל אֶרֶץ מִצְרָיִם:
9. Go quickly and go up to my father, and say to him, 'So said your son, Joseph: "God has made me a lord over all the Egyptians. Come down to me, do not hesitate.		ט. מַהֲרוּ וַעֲלוּ אֶל אָבִי וַאֲמַרְתֶּם אֵלָיו כֹּה אָמַר בִּנְךָ יוֹסֵף שָׂמַנִי אֱלֹהִים לְאָדוֹן לְכָל מִצְרָיִם רְדָה אֵלַי אַל תַּעֲמֹד:
10. And you shall dwell in the land of Goshen, and you shall be near to me, you and your children and your grandchildren, and your flocks and your cattle and all that is yours.		י. וְיָשַׁבְתָּ בְאֶרֶץ גּשֶׁן וְהָיִיתָ קָרוֹב אֵלַי אַתָּה וּבָנֶיךָ וּבְנֵי בָנֶיךָ וְצֹאנְךָ וּבְקָרְךָ וְכָל אֲשֶׁר לָךְ:

Guiding Questions:

1. According to Etz Hayim (p. 276), why did Joseph tell all of his Egyptian servants to "get away" from him?

2. According to Etz Hayim, (p. 276), what are some of the possible reasons Joseph chose not to send a message to his father Jacob that he was okay? Do you agree with any of them?

3. According to the Stone Chumash (p. 253), what is the meaning of the word וְעַתָּה ("and now") in verse 8?

4. According to the Stone Chumash (p. 254), what are some of the reasons Joseph choose Goshen for his brothers' families?

5. Barry Shrage compares Joseph to Moses in Text Messages (p. 53). Why was Moses a better leader?

6. Compare this story of Joseph reacting to his brothers to Cain's reaction to God in Genesis 4:1-12 (which we studied before)? How can you read this story as an answer to that story?

7. The Women's Torah Commentary points out that this is one of many times that Joseph cries (see p. 263). What are the other times? Why does Joseph cry?

Miketz - Genesis 41:15-25 - Dreaming of ... Cows and Corn?

15. Pharaoh said to Joseph, "I have dreamed a dream, and there is no interpreter for it, but I have heard it said of you [that] you listen to a dream and can interpret it."		טו. וַיֹּאמֶר פַּרְעֹה אֶל יוֹסֵף חֲלוֹם חָלַמְתִּי וּפֹתֵר אֵין אֹתוֹ וַאֲנִי שָׁמַעְתִּי עָלֶיךָ לֵאמֹר תִּשְׁמַע חֲלוֹם לִפְתֹּר אֹתוֹ:
16. Joseph replied to Pharaoh, saying, "Not I; God will give an answer [that will bring] peace to Pharaoh."		טז. וַיַּעַן יוֹסֵף אֶת פַּרְעֹה לֵאמֹר בִּלְעָדָי אֱלֹהִים יַעֲנֶה אֶת שְׁלוֹם פַּרְעֹה:
17. Pharaoh said to Joseph, "In my dream, look here, I was standing on the bank of the Nile.		יז. וַיְדַבֵּר פַּרְעֹה אֶל יוֹסֵף בַּחֲלֹמִי הִנְנִי עֹמֵד עַל שְׂפַת הַיְאֹר:
18. And look here, seven cows of muscular flesh and good form were coming up from the Nile, and they pastured in the marshland.		יח. וְהִנֵּה מִן הַיְאֹר עֹלֹת שֶׁבַע פָּרוֹת בְּרִיאוֹת בָּשָׂר וִיפֹת תֹּאַר וַתִּרְעֶינָה בָּאָחוּ:
19. And look here, seven other cows were coming up after them, emaciated and of very ugly form and with scrawny flesh; I have not seen such ugly ones throughout the entire land of Egypt.		יט. וְהִנֵּה שֶׁבַע פָּרוֹת אֲחֵרוֹת עֹלוֹת אַחֲרֵיהֶן דַּלּוֹת וְרָעוֹת תֹּאַר מְאֹד וְרַקּוֹת בָּשָׂר לֹא רָאִיתִי כָהֵנָּה בְּכָל אֶרֶץ מִצְרַיִם לָרֹעַ:
20. And the scrawny and ugly cows devoured the first seven healthy cows.		כ. וַתֹּאכַלְנָה הַפָּרוֹת הָרַקּוֹת וְהָרָעוֹת אֵת שֶׁבַע הַפָּרוֹת הָרִאשֹׁנוֹת הַבְּרִיאֹת:
21. And they devoured them, but you would never know that they had eaten them, for their appearance was as ugly as in the beginning; then I awoke.		כא. וַתָּבֹאנָה אֶל קִרְבֶּנָה וְלֹא נוֹדַע כִּי בָאוּ אֶל קִרְבֶּנָה וּמַרְאֵיהֶן רַע כַּאֲשֶׁר בַּתְּחִלָּה וָאִיקָץ:
22. Then I saw in my dream, and look here, seven stalks of grain were growing from one stalk, full and good.		כב. וָאֵרֶא בַּחֲלֹמִי וְהִנֵּה | שֶׁבַע שִׁבֳּלִים עֹלֹת בְּקָנֶה אֶחָד מְלֵאֹת וְטֹבוֹת:
23. And look here, seven stalks of grain, hardened, thin, and beaten by the east wind, were growing up after them.		כג. וְהִנֵּה שֶׁבַע שִׁבֳּלִים צְנֻמוֹת דַּקּוֹת שְׁדֻפוֹת קָדִים צֹמְחוֹת אַחֲרֵיהֶם:
24. And the thin stalks of grain swallowed up the seven good stalks of grain; I told the magicians, but no one can tell me [its meaning]."		כד. וַתִּבְלַעְןָ הַשִּׁבֳּלִים הַדַּקֹּת אֵת שֶׁבַע הַשִּׁבֳּלִים הַטֹּבוֹת וָאֹמַר אֶל הַחַרְטֻמִּים וְאֵין מַגִּיד לִי:
25. And Joseph said to Pharaoh, "Pharaoh's dream is one; what God has told Pharaoh what is happening.		כה. וַיֹּאמֶר יוֹסֵף אֶל פַּרְעֹה חֲלוֹם פַּרְעֹה אֶחָד הוּא אֵת אֲשֶׁר הָאֱלֹהִים עֹשֶׂה הִגִּיד לְפַרְעֹה:

Guiding Questions:

1. According to Rashi, what is the meaning of Joseph "תִּשְׁמַע" (verse 15) to Pharaoh's dream? How do you think Joseph listened to/understood Pharaoh? What are the different ways we listen? What other "listening" or "hearing" happens in Judaism (think of Jewish prayers)?

2. According to the Stone Chumash (p. 225), what does it mean that Joseph answers Pharaoh in verse 16, בִּלְעָדָי? What lesson might this have for us?

3. Compare Pharaoh's retelling of his dream here to the verses when they happen (41:1-7). What does Pharaoh change in his retelling? Why? See Stone Chumash (p. 225)

4. According to Rebbe Nachman's Torah (p. 294), what does Pharaoh dreaming of the cows represent? What does Joseph advising him to "tax his wealth" symbolize? How do you know you have enough wealth?

5. According to Rabbi Cherie Koller-Fox in Text Messages (p. 43), why does Pharaoh trust Joseph? How do we know what is true?

6. According to Sparks Beneath the Surface (p. 51), Pharaoh's dreams represent a challenge to tell the difference between prophetic vision of truth and self-delusion. According to this commentary, how should we think of our power of imagination?

7. According to the midrash in The Midrash Says (vol. 1, p. 383-384), on what day does Pharaoh have his dream? Why is this significant?

Vayeshev - Genesis 37:1-11 - What Do You Do With an Obnoxious Brother?

1. Jacob settled in the land of his father's wanderings, in the land of Canaan.		א. וַיֵּשֶׁב יַעֲקֹב בְּאֶרֶץ מְגוּרֵי אָבִיו בְּאֶרֶץ כְּנָעַן:
2. This is the legacy of Jacob: when Joseph was seventeen years old, being a shepherd, he was with his brothers with the flocks, and he was a boy, [and was] with the sons of Bilhah and with the sons of Zilpah, his father's wives; and Joseph brought evil tales about them to their father.		ב. אֵלֶּה | תֹּלְדוֹת יַעֲקֹב יוֹסֵף בֶּן שְׁבַע עֶשְׂרֵה שָׁנָה הָיָה רֹעֶה אֶת אֶחָיו בַּצֹּאן וְהוּא נַעַר אֶת בְּנֵי בִלְהָה וְאֶת בְּנֵי זִלְפָּה נְשֵׁי אָבִיו וַיָּבֵא יוֹסֵף אֶת דִּבָּתָם רָעָה אֶל אֲבִיהֶם:
3. Israel loved Joseph more than all his sons because he was a son of his old age; and he made him a colorful coat.		ג. וְיִשְׂרָאֵל אָהַב אֶת יוֹסֵף מִכָּל בָּנָיו כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ וְעָשָׂה לוֹ כְּתֹנֶת פַּסִּים:
4. His brothers saw that their father loved him more than all his brothers, so they hated him, and they could not speak with him peacefully.		ד. וַיִּרְאוּ אֶחָיו כִּי אֹתוֹ אָהַב אֲבִיהֶם מִכָּל אֶחָיו וַיִּשְׂנְאוּ אֹתוֹ וְלֹא יָכְלוּ דַּבְּרוֹ לְשָׁלֹם:
5. Joseph dreamed a dream and told his brothers, and they continued to hate him.		ה. וַיַּחֲלֹם יוֹסֵף חֲלוֹם וַיַּגֵּד לְאֶחָיו וַיּוֹסִפוּ עוֹד שְׂנֹא אֹתוֹ:
6. And he said to them, "Listen now to this dream, which I have dreamed:		ו. וַיֹּאמֶר אֲלֵיהֶם שִׁמְעוּ נָא הַחֲלוֹם הַזֶּה אֲשֶׁר חָלָמְתִּי:
7. Look here, we were binding stalks in the midst of the field, and look here, my sheaf rose and stood up, and look here, your sheaves made a circle and bowed down to my sheaf."		ז. וְהִנֵּה אֲנַחְנוּ מְאַלְּמִים אֲלֻמִּים בְּתוֹךְ הַשָּׂדֶה וְהִנֵּה קָמָה אֲלֻמָּתִי וְגַם נִצָּבָה וְהִנֵּה תְסֻבֶּינָה אֲלֻמֹּתֵיכֶם וַתִּשְׁתַּחֲוֶיןָ לַאֲלֻמָּתִי:
8. So his brothers said to him, "Will you rule over us, or will you govern us?" And they continued further to hate him because of his dreams and his words.		ח. וַיֹּאמְרוּ לוֹ אֶחָיו הֲמָלֹךְ תִּמְלֹךְ עָלֵינוּ אִם מָשׁוֹל תִּמְשֹׁל בָּנוּ וַיּוֹסִפוּ עוֹד שְׂנֹא אֹתוֹ עַל חֲלֹמֹתָיו וְעַל דְּבָרָיו:
9. And he again dreamed another dream, and he told it to his brothers, and he said, "Look here, I have dreamed another dream, and look here, the sun, the moon, and eleven stars were bowing down to me."		ט. וַיַּחֲלֹם עוֹד חֲלוֹם אַחֵר וַיְסַפֵּר אֹתוֹ לְאֶחָיו וַיֹּאמֶר הִנֵּה חָלַמְתִּי חֲלוֹם עוֹד וְהִנֵּה הַשֶּׁמֶשׁ וְהַיָּרֵחַ וְאַחַד עָשָׂר כּוֹכָבִים מִשְׁתַּחֲוִים לִי:
10. And he told [it] to his father and to his brothers, and his father scolded him and said to him, "What is this dream that you have dreamed? Will we come I, your mother, and your brothers to bow ourselves down to you to the ground?"		י. וַיְסַפֵּר אֶל אָבִיו וְאֶל אֶחָיו וַיִּגְעַר בּוֹ אָבִיו וַיֹּאמֶר לוֹ מָה הַחֲלוֹם הַזֶּה אֲשֶׁר חָלָמְתָּ הֲבוֹא נָבוֹא אֲנִי וְאִמְּךָ וְאַחֶיךָ לְהִשְׁתַּחֲוֹת לְךָ אָרְצָה:
11. So his brothers were jealous of him, but his father hesitated on the matter.		יא. וַיְקַנְאוּ בוֹ אֶחָיו וְאָבִיו שָׁמַר אֶת הַדָּבָר:

Guiding Questions:

1. According to the Etz Hayim chumash (p. 226), what is irony of the phrase "Jacob settled"? (Irony is when the text says one thing but actually the opposite is true.) What is the lesson for all of us about "settling" when we should be paying attention or trying harder?

2. According to Rashi, what is the meaning of the phrase in verse 1, "he was a boy" when he was actually  seventeen years old? In your opinion, what is the difference between being a boy and being a man, or being a girl and being a woman?

3. According to the Etz Hayim chumash (p. 227), why does Joseph tell his brothers his dreams instead of keeping them to himself? Have you ever shared something you knew you shouldn't because you couldn't hold it in? What happened?

4. According to the Plaut Modern Torah commentary (p. 244), what are a few of the different translations of כְּתֹנֶת פַּסִּים? What is the possible meaning of the coat for Jacob and Joseph?

5. According to the Stone Chumash (p. 199), what was wrong about Joseph's "evil reports" about his brothers? What is the lesson for us?

6. According to the Women's Torah Commentary (p. 212), what does Jacob's behavior in this story have in common with the story of Dinah?

7. According to Rashi (verse 10), why did Jacob scold or rebuke Joseph? Do you think this was enough? What do you think Jacob should have done?

Vayeitzei - Genesis 28:10-22 - Buying a Stairway to Heaven

10. Jacob left Beer Sheva, and he went toward Haran.		י. וַיֵּצֵא יַעֲקֹב מִבְּאֵר שָׁבַע וַיֵּלֶךְ חָרָנָה:
11. He arrived at the place and got ready to sleep there because the sun had set, and he took some of the stones of the place and placed them at his head, and he lay down in that place.		יא. וַיִּפְגַּע בַּמָּקוֹם וַיָּלֶן שָׁם כִּי בָא הַשֶּׁמֶשׁ וַיִּקַּח מֵאַבְנֵי הַמָּקוֹם וַיָּשֶׂם מְרַאֲשֹׁתָיו וַיִּשְׁכַּב בַּמָּקוֹם הַהוּא:
12. And he dreamed, and look: a ladder was set up on the ground and its top reached to heaven; and look: angels of God were going up and going down on it.		יב. וַיַּחֲלֹם וְהִנֵּה סֻלָּם מֻצָּב אַרְצָה וְרֹאשׁוֹ מַגִּיעַ הַשָּׁמָיְמָה וְהִנֵּה מַלְאֲכֵי אֱלֹהִים עֹלִים וְיֹרְדִים בּוֹ:
13. And look: the Eternal was standing over him, and God said, "I am the Eternal, the God of Abraham your father, and the God of Isaac; the land upon which you are lying I will give it to you and to your descendants.		יג. וְהִנֵּה יְהֹוָה נִצָּב עָלָיו וַיֹּאמַר אֲנִי יְהֹוָה אֱלֹהֵי אַבְרָהָם אָבִיךָ וֵאלֹהֵי יִצְחָק הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר אַתָּה שֹׁכֵב עָלֶיהָ לְךָ אֶתְּנֶנָּה וּלְזַרְעֶךָ:
14. And your descendants shall be like the dust of the earth, and you shall strongly go westward [lit. "toward the sea"] and eastward and northward and southward [lit. "toward the Negev"]; and through you and your descendants shall all the families of the earth be blessed.		יד. וְהָיָה זַרְעֲךָ כַּעֲפַר הָאָרֶץ וּפָרַצְתָּ יָמָּה וָקֵדְמָה וְצָפֹנָה וָנֶגְבָּה וְנִבְרְכוּ בְךָ כָּל מִשְׁפְּחֹת הָאֲדָמָה וּבְזַרְעֶךָ:
15. And look: I am with you, and I will guard you wherever you go, and I will return you to this land, for I will not abandon you until I have done what I have promised you."		טו. וְהִנֵּה אָנֹכִי עִמָּךְ וּשְׁמַרְתִּיךָ בְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר תֵּלֵךְ וַהֲשִׁבֹתִיךָ אֶל הָאֲדָמָה הַזֹּאת כִּי לֹא אֶעֱזָבְךָ עַד אֲשֶׁר אִם עָשִׂיתִי אֵת אֲשֶׁר דִּבַּרְתִּי לָךְ:
16. Jacob woke up from his sleep, and he said, "Wow! The Eternal is in this place, and I did not know."		טז. וַיִּיקַץ יַעֲקֹב מִשְּׁנָתוֹ וַיֹּאמֶר אָכֵן יֵשׁ יְהֹוָה בַּמָּקוֹם הַזֶּה וְאָנֹכִי לֹא יָדָעְתִּי:
17. And he was overwhelmed, and he said, "How awesome is this place! This is none other than the house of God, and this is the gate of heaven."		יז. וַיִּירָא וַיֹּאמַר מַה נּוֹרָא הַמָּקוֹם הַזֶּה אֵין זֶה כִּי אִם בֵּית אֱלֹהִים וְזֶה שַׁעַר הַשָּׁמָיִם:
18. So Jacob arose early in the morning, and he took the stone that he had placed at his head, and he set it up as a monument, and he poured oil on top of it.		יח. וַיַּשְׁכֵּם יַעֲקֹב בַּבֹּקֶר וַיִּקַּח אֶת הָאֶבֶן אֲשֶׁר שָׂם מְרַאֲשֹׁתָיו וַיָּשֶׂם אֹתָהּ מַצֵּבָה וַיִּצֹק שֶׁמֶן עַל רֹאשָׁהּ:
19. And he named the place Beth El, but Luz was orignally the name of the city.		יט. וַיִּקְרָא אֶת שֵׁם הַמָּקוֹם הַהוּא בֵּית אֵל וְאוּלָם לוּז שֵׁם הָעִיר לָרִאשֹׁנָה:
20. And Jacob made a vow, saying, "If God will be with me, and God will guard me on this way, upon which I am going, and God will give me bread to eat and clothes to wear;		כ. וַיִּדַּר יַעֲקֹב נֶדֶר לֵאמֹר אִם יִהְיֶה אֱלֹהִים עִמָּדִי וּשְׁמָרַנִי בַּדֶּרֶךְ הַזֶּה אֲשֶׁר אָנֹכִי הוֹלֵךְ וְנָתַן לִי לֶחֶם לֶאֱכֹל וּבֶגֶד לִלְבֹּשׁ:
21. And if I return in peace to my father's house, and the Eternal will be my God;		כא. וְשַׁבְתִּי בְשָׁלוֹם אֶל בֵּית אָבִי וְהָיָה יְהֹוָה לִי לֵאלֹהִים:
22. Then this stone, which I have placed as a monument, shall be a house of God, and everything that You give me, I will surely pay back to You.		כב. וְהָאֶבֶן הַזֹּאת אֲשֶׁר שַׂמְתִּי מַצֵּבָה יִהְיֶה בֵּית אֱלֹהִים וְכֹל אֲשֶׁר תִּתֶּן לִי עַשֵּׂר אֲעַשְּׂרֶנּוּ לָךְ:

Guide Questions:

1. In verse 11,  how many times does the word מָּקוֹם occur in this verse? Why do you think this word is repeated? According to Rashi, what is "the place"? Why is this significant? One of God's names is The Place (of the universe). How can God be like a "place"? What are some places in your life that you would consider special or holy?

2. According to Rashi, what is the meaning of verse 16? In what other ways are we "asleep" or not aware of special or holy things that are happening right in front of us? Give an example from your life.

3. According to the Sfas Emes in Sparks Beneath the Surface (p. 38, look under "Perush"), what kind of feelings accompany discovering truth? What kind of feelings do not? Do you agree?

4. According to the Stone Chumash (p. 145), there is great symbolism in Jacob's dream. What are some of the things the ladder might represent? The angels? Jacob's standing with God above him?

5. According to Rebbe Nachman's Torah (p. 231), what does the Hebrew verb וַיִּפְגַּע mean? What prayer did Jacob establish? It also says that Jacob at first did not pray, but then he did. Why is it hard to pray in the "dark"?

6. According to Rabbi Sandy Eisenberg Sasso in Text Messages (pp. 29-30), what question do the Rabbis ask, and what is the meaning of their answer? How does Rabbi Sasso say this applies to you today?

7. According to Plaut's Modern Torah Commentary (p. 195), what is the history of the place Beth El? In the "Gleanings" section of that same commentary under "The Gate of Heaven" (p. 197), what does it mean that Beth El is the "gate of heaven"? Do you agree?

Stop Pushing!

Toldot: "Stop Pushing" - Genesis 25:19-28

19. This is the legacy of Isaac the son of Abraham; Abraham fathered Isaac.		יט. וְאֵלֶּה תּוֹלְדֹת יִצְחָק בֶּן אַבְרָהָם אַבְרָהָם הוֹלִיד אֶת יִצְחָק:
20. And Isaac was forty years old when he took Rebecca the daughter of Bethuel the Aramean of Padan Aram, the sister of Laban the Aramean, to himself for a wife.		כ. וַיְהִי יִצְחָק בֶּן אַרְבָּעִים שָׁנָה בְּקַחְתּוֹ אֶת רִבְקָה בַּת בְּתוּאֵל הָאֲרַמִּי מִפַּדַּן אֲרָם אֲחוֹת לָבָן הָאֲרַמִּי לוֹ לְאִשָּׁה:
21. And Isaac prayed to the Eternal facing his wife because she was barren, and the Eternal accepted his prayer, and Rebecca his wife conceived.		כא. וַיֶּעְתַּר יִצְחָק לַיהֹוָה לְנֹכַח אִשְׁתּוֹ כִּי עֲקָרָה הִוא וַיֵּעָתֶר לוֹ יְהֹוָה וַתַּהַר רִבְקָה אִשְׁתּוֹ:
22. And the children struggled within her, and she said, "If [it be] so, why am I [like] this?" And she went to inquire of the Eternal.		כב. וַיִּתְרֹצֲצוּ הַבָּנִים בְּקִרְבָּהּ וַתֹּאמֶר אִם כֵּן לָמָּה זֶּה אָנֹכִי וַתֵּלֶךְ לִדְרשׁ אֶת יְהֹוָה:
23. And the Eternal said to her, "Two nations are in your womb, and two kingdoms will separate from your inside, and one kingdom will become mightier than the other kingdom, and the elder will serve the younger.		כג. וַיֹּאמֶר יְהֹוָה לָהּ שְׁנֵי גוֹיִם בְּבִטְנֵךְ וּשְׁנֵי לְאֻמִּים מִמֵּעַיִךְ יִפָּרֵדוּ וּלְאֹם מִלְאֹם יֶאֱמָץ וְרַב יַעֲבֹד צָעִיר:
24. And her days to give birth were completed, and there were twins in her womb!		כד. וַיִּמְלְאוּ יָמֶיהָ לָלֶדֶת וְהִנֵּה תוֹמִם בְּבִטְנָהּ:
25. And the first one emerged ruddy; he was completely like a coat of hair, and they named him Esau.		כה. וַיֵּצֵא הָרִאשׁוֹן אַדְמוֹנִי כֻּלּוֹ כְּאַדֶּרֶת שֵׂעָר וַיִּקְרְאוּ שְׁמוֹ עֵשָׂו:
26. And afterwards, his brother emerged, and his hand was grasping Esau's heel, and he named him Jacob. Now Isaac was sixty years old when she gave birth to them.		כו. וְאַחֲרֵי כֵן יָצָא אָחִיו וְיָדוֹ אֹחֶזֶת בַּעֲקֵב עֵשָׂו וַיִּקְרָא שְׁמוֹ יַעֲקֹב וְיִצְחָק בֶּן שִׁשִּׁים שָׁנָה בְּלֶדֶת אֹתָם:
27. And the youths grew up, and Esau was a man who understood hunting, a man of the field, but Jacob was a simple man, dwelling in tents.		כז. וַיִּגְדְּלוּ הַנְּעָרִים וַיְהִי עֵשָׂו אִישׁ יֹדֵעַ צַיִד אִישׁ שָׂדֶה וְיַעֲקֹב אִישׁ תָּם ישֵׁב אֹהָלִים:
28. And Isaac loved Esau because [his] hunting was in his mouth, but Rebecca loved Jacob.		כח. וַיֶּאֱהַב יִצְחָק אֶת עֵשָׂו כִּי צַיִד בְּפִיו וְרִבְקָה אֹהֶבֶת אֶת יַעֲקֹב:

Guide Questions:

1. According to the midrash in the Stone Chumash (p. 125, or see Rashi on "opposite his wife"), how did Isaac and Rebecca stand when they prayed for a child? What do you think this symbolizes about how married people should face difficulties?

2. According to the midrash in the Stone Chumash (p. 125), what does it mean that the children "struggled" or were "agitated" within her? What did Jacob want to "run" to, even from the womb? What did Esau? Do you think people are born with natural urges or desires to do certain things, good or bad?

3. According to the midrash in the Stone Chumash (p. 126), what did Esau having red hair symbolize? How was this different from King David? What is the lesson this midrash is trying to teach?

4. According to Rashi on verse 27, what does it mean that "Esau was a man who understood hunting"? What does it mean that Jacob was a "simple" or "innocent" man?

5. Read "The Most Serious Thing That Ever Happened to Me," by Esau Isaacson in Text Messages (p. 24, Rabbi Mordecai Finley). What emotions did Esau experience? What was the most serious thing that happened to him?

6. According to The Women's Torah Commentary (p. 136), under "Adonai said to her," how does God reply to Rebecca? What two other mothers are mentioned in the Tanach that pray about their children? What does this imply about God talking to men and/or women?

7. In Rabbi Nachman's Torah commentary (p. 206), on "two nations are in your womb," what does he mean that "a person cannot have it both ways"? Do you agree?

Love at First Sight

Love at First Sight: Chayei Sarah, Genesis 24:61-67

61. Rebecca and her maidens arose and rode on the camels, and they followed the man; and the servant took Rebecca and left.		סא. וַתָּקָם רִבְקָה וְנַעֲרֹתֶיהָ וַתִּרְכַּבְנָה עַל הַגְּמַלִּים וַתֵּלַכְנָה אַחֲרֵי הָאִישׁ וַיִּקַּח הָעֶבֶד אֶת רִבְקָה וַיֵּלַךְ:
62. Now Isaac was on his way, coming from Be'er Lachai Ro'i, and he dwelt in the land of the south.		סב. וְיִצְחָק בָּא מִבּוֹא בְּאֵר לַחַי רֹאִי וְהוּא יוֹשֵׁב בְּאֶרֶץ הַנֶּגֶב:
63. And Isaac was walking in the field towards evening, and he lifted his eyes and saw, and camels were approaching!		סג. וַיֵּצֵא יִצְחָק לָשׂוּחַ בַּשָּׂדֶה לִפְנוֹת עָרֶב וַיִּשָּׂא עֵינָיו וַיַּרְא וְהִנֵּה גְמַלִּים בָּאִים:
64. And Rebecca lifted her eyes and saw Isaac, and she fell from the camel.		סד. וַתִּשָּׂא רִבְקָה אֶת עֵינֶיהָ וַתֵּרֶא אֶת יִצְחָק וַתִּפֹּל מֵעַל הַגָּמָל:
65. She said to the servant, "Who is that man walking in the field towards us?" And the servant said, "He is my master." And she took the veil and covered herself.		סה. וַתֹּאמֶר אֶל הָעֶבֶד מִי הָאִישׁ הַלָּזֶה הַהֹלֵךְ בַּשָּׂדֶה לִקְרָאתֵנוּ וַיֹּאמֶר הָעֶבֶד הוּא אֲדֹנִי וַתִּקַּח הַצָּעִיף וַתִּתְכָּס:
66. And the servant told Isaac all the things that he had done.		סו. וַיְסַפֵּר הָעֶבֶד לְיִצְחָק אֵת כָּל הַדְּבָרִים אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה:
67. Isaac brought her to the tent of Sarah his mother, and he took Rebecca, and she became his wife, and he loved her. And Isaac was comforted after his mother.		סז. וַיְבִאֶהָ יִצְחָק הָאֹהֱלָה שָׂרָה אִמּוֹ וַיִּקַּח אֶת רִבְקָה וַתְּהִי לוֹ לְאִשָּׁה וַיֶּאֱהָבֶהָ וַיִּנָּחֵם יִצְחָק אַחֲרֵי אִמּוֹ:

Guide Questions

1. According to the Etz Hayim commentary, what is the meaning of the verb לָשׂוּחַ? (See verse 63. Be sure to look at both commentaries on p. 138.) What does this have to do with Judaism today? 

2. According to the Plaut Modern Commentary, what is the meaning of Rebecca's veil, and what does this have to do with Judaism today? (p. 166) 

3. Read the poem in the Women's Torah Commentary on p. 131 by Amy Blank. How is Rebecca feeling, according to this poem? Rebecca was most likely about 13 years old as most girls were married at that age at that time. How do you feel about that?

4. In the Stone Edition Chumash, What is the meaning of "she fell off her camel"? (verse 64, p. 120.) 

5. What does Rashi teach us about Rebecca living in Sarah's tent? What miracles did Sarah have that Rebecca brought back?

6. According to Rabbi Elie Kaunfer in Text Messages (pp. 20-21), how is Isaac feeling and what is Isaac praying for? 

7. According to Sparks Beneath the Surface (p. 26), who is the other woman besides Rebecca who wears a veil? One woman's set of twins is at war, and another woman's set of twins is at peace. What is the mystical meaning of the veil?